ThE FaMiLy

Dear Readers,

Very happy to see you after veryyyyyy long time!!!!!!

You know friends, we all require motivation at some or other part of our life,though the time is not fixed.We human beings some time get demotivated through act of other or rather we can say what we are is only due to our self.

I keep on writing motivational blogs for you friends so that you can read it whenever you find yourself discouraged.

The Family

         One of the best motivator in our life is our family. Family members are the one who knows A to Z about you.They provide us the guidance in each and every step our life..No matters how big or how successful you are, family is there always to help you. But sometime we ignore them.Father, mother, brother,sister and grand parents are the biggest motivators in our life.

I would like to share one incident of mine. When I was about to appear  one of the toughest exam in the world, I was demotivated right before one day of exam.The syllabus was like a deep sea with plenty of  water which never going to finish. I was worried on that night and started crying how would I finish it  as just 8 Hours are left up.
       But there comes a warmness of Family..my father and mother both sat beside me and and told not to get worried inspired me to complete as much as I could thoroughly and then appear for exams confidently.I stopped crying and started my preparation and to my surprise I have to left only 2 chapters and covered the rest of syllabus.The next day, paper came in my hand, I started reading one by one all the questions and felt happy to see that examiner have asked only those questions which I have studied.....I felt myself lucky for the day.The final result came and I passed the paper with good marks....


   A person without family has so much trouble that also I have seen in my life. One of my friend who is staying in my city as a Paying Guest. She met with a serious accident while driving a vehicle during peak traffic hours.But citizens of my city are genuine enough to take her to the Hospital. In the Hospital, she was asked about her parents and family, but she was answer less as they are staying in the different city. At that point of time anybody would start crying and understand the importance of Family.

So I would advise everyone to be there with your family, never ignore or annoy on them,share all your problems with them and respect them by at least saying two words of thankfulness. We always say thank You to others but never to our dear ones who are the real helper that is the tragedy of our life

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Dear Readers,

                   "Things happen as you think"

Friends, In this world, the very important thing is our thought that changes every second in life. Thoughts are compared with the monkey that never rest at any place.Its very essential to have control on the thoughts.
Even our mind do not stop working at the time of sleep. Our sub-conscious mind is working 24*7 time.

Our thought process is very rapid that you even didn't realize that the thoughts are diverted to another direction.In the Jain religion, it is clearly illustrated through various real stories. It happened many times with me.For Example-If you think that Bus will arrive in 5 minutes then definitely it will.But the thing depends on how eagerly you are thinking in that direction. In the movie "The Secret", you can definitely find it true. It's really wonderful, one should watch it at least once.

The negative thoughts affect more than the positive i.e.if you think that I will not pass in the examination then, it will come true. Thus everyone should avoid negative thoughts. I know it is difficult to do that but not that much difficult. Keep in touch with various motivational books, movies and blogs...

        The fundamental thing that I found is "Food" that affects your thought. "As you eat, so shall you think."
Today the cases of rape, suicide, murder etc are increased because the food habit of people has been drastically changed. The fast food has wasted the life.So, we should try to
-Eat only the vegetarian food and avoid the non-vegs,
-Avoid the false criticism of people
-Read the books which gives positive energy,

Develop your thought process then you will surely notice the change. That is why it is said that:
Make list of all your dreams then read it everyday and think about it. Knowingly or unknowingly you are going nearer to your dreams and sometimes you even didn't realize that the dream had already become the reality. Just think Positively!!!

Happy reading....

Rutu Gandhi

Dear Readers,

                    Happy Guru Purnima to All!
Friends, Do you know exactly what is "Guru"? Guru is not an English word, it means the coach, guide,or it's the person

• who guides you in every difficult situation in life without any expectation,
• who prevents you from all your wrong doing and suggests you the right way,
• who takes you from the darkness to the divine light,
• who provides  correct direction to the learner i.e.his student.
• who guides you during your journey of life

      Throughout the life, many times we are having help of some peoples. When we take something from others, we thank them but we are not gratuitous to the real people who helped us a lot! Can't we show a little courtesy to the Guru. And Guru Purnima is the day when one can express the feeling to the Guru and thanks him.

   

It is not necessary that Guru is always the Teacher of your Academics but he/she can be anyone your mother,father,spiritual saint,relative....

Swami Ram Krishna Paramhansa tried  to make Swami Vivekanand his student or shishya because he knew that he is the only person who can reach to the path of  "moksha". Swami Vivekanad  was firm in his thoughts and very intelligent person. He found the inner capability of Ram Krishna Paramhansa that is not even seen by any one.And finally Swami Vivekanad accepted him as his Guru.

               I would like to conclude through saying that "Guru makes you to Learn and  not only Teaching!!!"

Happy Reading.



Rutu Gandhi

Dear Readers,
  
         I have just seen the movie -" Bhag Milkha Bhag". What a superb movie it is! And the acting of Farhan Akhtar, Divya Datta amazing!!Extra ordinary cinematography and lyrics of the song!

Friends, from seeing that movie, I would like to ponder upon that persons dedication-"The Flying Sikh". The passion of the person and some of the scene were like that I cannot describe in words!!

Passion:-

Passion is the intense emotion of the people, desire or enthusiasm for the goal. Its the dictionary meaning but real definition of passion is very difficult for me to give. Without passion,it would be futile  to be involved in any act. The life would be an ordinary without passion, with no specific goal.
  
It may be possible that difficulties may come in your way but friends never escape from the difficulties,  but rather fight against it. Life is all about fighting, day in and day out you may came across many new challenges but if you do not fight then the situation take charge over you. You have to fight against your own soul of demon, against the wrong or negative thinking of your mind.If you do not fight then you will be thrown out of the world. So.. have faith in yourself and fight until the last time.

If the situations are still not in your favor then never give up and never forget the example of the small, tiny ant which climbs up to the tree though she falls down many times during its journey.
Thus developing that habit of passion is very essential.
In the movie, when Milkha Singh disqualifies from 100 meter race, he at the time of returning back when all are sleeping, was awakened. And he suddenly asks his coach about the world record of 400 meter race.After that he also under went the rigorous training with is coach.Thus that is called the "Passion"...

May you all can work with passion and achieve a lot in life.....

Happy reading and week ahead!!!

Rutu Gandhi

Attitude- That makes you different

Dear readers,

        

                    Today I would like to share some views on "ATTITUDE".

Attitude simply means the positive or negative evaluation of situation or people.It is the attitude that makes you unique from others. Even people can judge you from your attitude i.e. the way you tackle the situation and things.

              Friends, I am sure that you all have heard about Adolf Hitler- chancellor of Germany.

Once Hitler and all his soldier were covered from all the four sides so the soldiers were worried about how to attack against them.

Hitler simply replied, "As we are covered from all  the sides, we can attack from any side!"

   Life is full of unpredictable experience.Many times situations are such that we have no other option but only to face it. But friends we should take the challenge positively.

Following are some suggestions through which one can change the attitude:

• Accept the situation or challenge as we cannot change the present scenario.
• Be positive. Try to be Optimistic. Don't think that the glass is half empty but see that is half stuffed.
• Develop Self-confidence.Have faith in yourself and keep in mind that you can accept any challenge.
• Find some good thing from any severe or unwanted situation since there is always some good thing to learn from every experience.
• Learn form the mistakes you made in past and do not make it happen again.
• Think out of the box i.e.Think newer ways to overcome the situation.

There is difference between "EGO" and "ATTITUDE". Don't develop so much attitude that it become ego.Ego is negative attitude.Ego is self pride, self esteem, selfishness, self boasting and it's a feeling of "I" and "ME" all the time...... 

ATTITUDE makes you different form others while EGO makes you alone form others.

Attitude can be changed some times nut Ego is like "Ravan" which goes only when you are no more.

So friends develop the attitude but also see that it is not the "ego". For every Profession or Business a right attitude is very helpful to get success.

Happy  Reading & enjoy every moment in life...

Choose the right way, Destination'l be reached!

Dear Readers,
                     Its my first post and I would like to inspire you with the real story.

This story is experienced by our Chief Minister.

                   One fine Sunday morning,I was going to buy some house-hold things. I was on my two-wheeler. Suddenly an old tribal man with bare foot came and he asked me the way to go to Sabarmati Ashram- an Ashram which is founded by the Father of India- Mahatma Gandhiji. I was at Paldi that time and the distance from Paldi to Sabarmati Ashram  is quite large. It would take nearly 30 minutes by feet to reach. That old man was not even having the shoes to wear in the hot noon.
                     I directed him the way of it and said, " But how will you go there with bare foots in such a hot months of summer?"
                     He simply replied, "Daughter, tell me the way I have chosen is correct or not?"
                     I replied in affirmative but again asked the same question.
He firmly answered, " Beta, if the way I have chosen is correct then the destination will automatically be reached. No matter how long time it will take to reach the end point"

Now I would like to show some lights on the morale of the real story.

Friends choose the right way- the right path to reach your goal and ensure that you are on the correct way and do not worry about achieving the final success. Because there is no any FULL STOP for SUCCESS.

The lyrics of the Song of "Jab We Met" came in to my mind-

" हम  जो  चलने लगे, चलने लगे है ये रास्ते
 मंजिल  से बहेतर लगने लगे है ये रास्ते ....."

( If we starts walking towards the dream, the roads/paths seems better than the final destination)

           "Dream for not BECOMING SOMETHING but dream for  DOING SOMETHING"